I (22F) am a submissive - through and through. There’s no bigger turn on for me than a man who is confident and self-assured and I am also a people-pleaser, which means I love to see my man pleased with me. This story is from a little over a year ago, when my role was reversed.

He was confident, chivalrous, manly but Tom was a bit too gentle in the bedroom. I had told him I liked it when he took control but he thought that meant just doggy and missionary. We hadn’t been dating for long but I had to let him know what I really wanted - but he was not as experienced as me in bed, so the best way was to show him.

I got myself ready after a shower; while he was showering I put on my black lingerie and slipped on my high heels. When he walked into the bedroom I pushed up against him and grabbed him by the wrists. I held his hands above his head and kissed him passionately. I blindfolded him and fitted wrist restraints onto him. I then turned him and pushed him backwards onto the bed. Additional restraints went on his ankles. I clipped the restraints to the posts of the bed leaving him spread eagle. He mumbled some questions but I simply told him to shut up and trust me.

His cock was already hard, but that would have to wait. I kneeled over his biceps and lowered my pussy onto his face. He licked me gently and made me wet for him. But I had to control this, so I turned around and shoved my pussy over his mouth while I lent forward and gripped the base of his cock as tightly as I could. I grinded against his face and squeezed his cock until it was swollen and took on a purple hue. I rotated my hips so his tongue glided through my entire ass - back and forth and then lingering so he ate it.

I started sucking just the tip of his engorged cock - very soft and gentle, to tease out the pre-cum while I maintained a tight grip on its base. I had to pause when I started cumming on his face, dripping a mixture of my juices and his saliva after I finished climaxing.

I told him he was a good boy for making me cum and that he deserved a reward. I reposition so my pussy hovered over the tip of his cock and slowly descended onto it. He strained upward trying to force himself in deep but I had him restrained and my legs were over his, pre venting him from doing much. I took him inside me in a slow and controlled slide until the base of his cock and pelvis met my engorged clitoris. With his cock engulfed by my vulva I grinded against him, clenching my muscles as I did. He tensed up so I stopped. I told him he had to be a good boy and wait until I said he could cum.

I lifted myself up and fed my nipples one at a time into his mouth as he licked in circles and sucked at them. I rubbed by breasts in his face and then re-mounted him, hoping the distraction would have eased his building orgasm. I knew he wouldn’t last long so I went completely feral, pounding my pussy and pelvis into him as a loud rhythm of clapping skin filled the room.

After a period of intense fucking, he tensed up and groaned in pleasure so I began to encourage him, repeating in a low, commanding voice: “cum for me. Fuck that pussy and fill me with your cum.” By the third time I had said it, he shook with an intense clenching of his muscles - harder than before and groaned loudly while his cum filled me inside. I waited and then slowly extracted his cock from inside me as I got off him, juices flowing down onto him.

After we caught our breath I told him how much I enjoyed seeing him so happy. I explained that next time I wanted him to be the one in control. His eyes lit up and a massive grin filled his face - I could tell he was already thinking of the possibilities. I smiled too, pleased with myself that maybe I had created the spark that would light a new fire in our bedroom.